Isnin, Disember 14, 2009

are you the happiest woman...??

our new mentor, with new way of conducting SC..giving task for the eight of us..to complete reading two books but in a very unique way..the eight of us will rotate the book after reading one part and give to other member to read the same part..and the book will be pass to other hands after the first people finish reading the part suppose to be read..and the circle with be continues until all of us finish reading the whole things from the books..
one of the books reaches my hand is "You can be the happiest woman in the world" written by Dr Aid al Qarni..
i would like to share it here...

Say YES...
YES to your smile that sends a message of warmth and friendliness to others.
YES to your kind words that establish friendship as permitted in Islam and dispel rancour.
YES to acceptable charity that brings happiness to the poor and feeds the hungry.
YES to sitting with the Quran, reciting it, pondering its meanings and acting upon them, and repenting and seeking forgiveness.
YES to remembering Allah a great deal and praying for forgiveness, persisting in dua' and offering sincere repentance.
YES to raising your children in Islam, teaching them the Sunnah and guiding them to that which will benefit them.
YES to modesty and hijab as enjoined by Allah, which is the means of self-protection.
YES to the friendship of good women who fear Allah, love Islam and respect high values.
YES to honouring one's parents, upholding the ties of kinship, honourin one's neighbours and caring for orphans.
YES to reading useful, interesting and beneficial books.

and say NO...
NO to wasting time in trivial pursuits, and love of revenge and futile arguments.
No to giving priority to money and accumulation of wealth over one's health, happiness, sleep and peace of mind.
NO to seeking out other people's faults and backbiting about them, whilst forgetting one's own faults.
NO to indulging in physical pleasure and giving in to every whim and desire.
NO to wasting time with shallow people and spending hours in idle pursuits.
NO to neglecting physical hygiene and cleanliness in the house, and being disorganized at home.
NO to haram drinks, cigarettes, narghile ("hookah pipes") and all foul things.
NO to thinking of past calamities and dwelling on past mistakes.
NO to forgetting the Hereafter and neglectingto strive for it, and to being careless of what will happen in the Hereafter.
NO to wasting money on haram things, being extravagant with regard to permissible things and falling short in acts of worship.

then think about it...
1. Be like the bee, which lands on fragant flowers and fresh branches.
2. You don't have time to seek out people's defects and mistakes.
3. If Allah is with you,the whom do you have to fear? if Allah is against you, then what hope do you have?
4. The fire of envy consumes the body, and the excessive jealousy is like a raging fire.
5. If you don't prepare today, then you will not be able to do anything tomorrow.
6. Withdraw peacefully from places where idle arguments are going on.
7. Let your morals and attitude be even more beautiful than a garden.
8. Do acts of kindness and you will be the happiest of people.
9. Leave people to their Creator, leave the envier to death and forget about your enemy.
10. The pleasure of haram actions is followed by regret, loss and punishment.

interesting, right?lets practice it, who knows you will be the one, one of the happiest woman in the world..

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are you the happiest woman...??

our new mentor, with new way of conducting SC..giving task for the eight of us..to complete reading two books but in a very unique way..the eight of us will rotate the book after reading one part and give to other member to read the same part..and the book will be pass to other hands after the first people finish reading the part suppose to be read..and the circle with be continues until all of us finish reading the whole things from the books..
one of the books reaches my hand is "You can be the happiest woman in the world" written by Dr Aid al Qarni..
i would like to share it here...

Say YES...
YES to your smile that sends a message of warmth and friendliness to others.
YES to your kind words that establish friendship as permitted in Islam and dispel rancour.
YES to acceptable charity that brings happiness to the poor and feeds the hungry.
YES to sitting with the Quran, reciting it, pondering its meanings and acting upon them, and repenting and seeking forgiveness.
YES to remembering Allah a great deal and praying for forgiveness, persisting in dua' and offering sincere repentance.
YES to raising your children in Islam, teaching them the Sunnah and guiding them to that which will benefit them.
YES to modesty and hijab as enjoined by Allah, which is the means of self-protection.
YES to the friendship of good women who fear Allah, love Islam and respect high values.
YES to honouring one's parents, upholding the ties of kinship, honourin one's neighbours and caring for orphans.
YES to reading useful, interesting and beneficial books.

and say NO...
NO to wasting time in trivial pursuits, and love of revenge and futile arguments.
No to giving priority to money and accumulation of wealth over one's health, happiness, sleep and peace of mind.
NO to seeking out other people's faults and backbiting about them, whilst forgetting one's own faults.
NO to indulging in physical pleasure and giving in to every whim and desire.
NO to wasting time with shallow people and spending hours in idle pursuits.
NO to neglecting physical hygiene and cleanliness in the house, and being disorganized at home.
NO to haram drinks, cigarettes, narghile ("hookah pipes") and all foul things.
NO to thinking of past calamities and dwelling on past mistakes.
NO to forgetting the Hereafter and neglectingto strive for it, and to being careless of what will happen in the Hereafter.
NO to wasting money on haram things, being extravagant with regard to permissible things and falling short in acts of worship.

then think about it...
1. Be like the bee, which lands on fragant flowers and fresh branches.
2. You don't have time to seek out people's defects and mistakes.
3. If Allah is with you,the whom do you have to fear? if Allah is against you, then what hope do you have?
4. The fire of envy consumes the body, and the excessive jealousy is like a raging fire.
5. If you don't prepare today, then you will not be able to do anything tomorrow.
6. Withdraw peacefully from places where idle arguments are going on.
7. Let your morals and attitude be even more beautiful than a garden.
8. Do acts of kindness and you will be the happiest of people.
9. Leave people to their Creator, leave the envier to death and forget about your enemy.
10. The pleasure of haram actions is followed by regret, loss and punishment.

interesting, right?lets practice it, who knows you will be the one, one of the happiest woman in the world..